this blog post and he sent this soverylovely letter back. I got permission to post it, because I think it's helpful to anyone, in any kind of relationship. I especially like the "In Solidarity" part.
I'm so glad you got some useful information from the class. I was thrown by the sheer number of attendees, but I'm encouraged some folks found it useful. :)
Poly-Mono dyad relationships CAN work - you and your partner just have to want to MAKE it work. It can be challenging... but, I don't think any more so than a poly-poly dyad relationship. Honestly, the same skills apply! ;)
Good luck creating the relationships of your dreams - both of you! After all, we ALL juggle multiple relationships - whether they be friendships, work partnerships, lovers, or our passions and hobbies that take up a large chunk of our time!